First time in a while this has happened, so hopefully someone can educate me. A user here and I were going back and forth on a trade offer and pretty much reached an agreement, but I didn't actually accept the offer and a pending trade hadn't been created yet, but the other party decided to already send payment via PayPal. It was specified in the offer that the payment should be for Friends & Family and not Goods and Services. He may have overlooked this. I got charged fees so I refunded the payment and ask he send via Friends & Family, but it looks like the fees aren't refunded so I just ate the fees?
Is it reasonable to ask him to send the original amount plus the fees? It isn't much.