nonamesleft wrote:> Xellos2099 wrote:
>> nonamesleft wrote:
> |>> Sometimes when something seems risky/unacceptable, this adds excitement, and
> people
> |>> want to do it more. Perhaps she enjoyed the attention you were giving her even
>> though
> |>> she has a boyfriend, because it's like a risky relationship. But then when the
>> boyfriend
> |>> saw your text, maybe he got angry, and maybe then she decided it was too risky/too
> |>> stressful?
>>
>> I never exactly tell her that I like her; but it is probably implied thorugh action
>> like an open secret. Like i said, once she told a new co-worker that I like her
>> in a small whisper voice, but I did overheard it and I nearly facepalm myself.
> She
>> probably told all her female friends about me but I have no proof. The week before
>> I get caught, she was flirting with me big time. She jokingly accurse me of staring
>> at her while she was talking to her co-worker, then she talk next to me and lean
>> to me a bit with a playful smile. The next day i told her i don't want to see
> her
>> sad then her biggest comeback was she openly say that because I like her in a
> small
>> tone. I was completely shock; i was perfectly content of keeping the current
> status
>> quote of us flirting with one another and she just say it out openly. I was telling
>> her should she be saying that but she just smile and walk away. That probably
> was
>> the trigger for me to ask for a cute photo of her and get caught. Even then,
> I am
>> not even sure if I was really caught. The only thing I have is her word, but
> her
>> tone and expression was filled with anger that I have never seen her express probably
>> mean it is the truth. She seems to be taking a lot of risk for some cheap trill.
>>
> Interesting. I don't know what to make of it. Maybe she was just doing what she thought
> was friendly and then maybe she felt that you went too far by asking for a picture?
> Who knows.
Who knows at this point as she is tight liped on the matter. While it is true she is not under obligation to tell me anything other than I was caught; isn't it kind of double standard? If a man break up with a girl, he is suppose to man up and say why.
What likely happen was that I am providing the kind of emotional support that her boyfriend is not providing. We share some kind of mutual attraction and thus the flirting between us started. There was no reason for her to flirt with me that much if she was just being friendly. She also likely enjoyed the risk and danger emotions
I bring aka True Lie style. We probably enjoy each other company a lot.
On hindsight, it is probably a good time we get caught now as nothing physically happen between me and her yet. Any longer we might have involved a bit more physically and that would be the point of no return. Now before people calling me out I never should have started this in beginning; I knew it is not a good idea. My brain tell me it is not but my heart tells me otherwise.